Isn’t it ironic that the forces that drag us apart are the ones that are always preaching about how we need to get together?
I was reminded of this the other night as I listened to a Rabbi’s sermon decrying the recent horrible hostage taking at a Texas synagogue. The Rabbi eloquently made her point about the community of humanity. Unfortunately, she made it as a leader of one of the very sectarian factions that make that goal of community much more difficult.
The Rabbi denounced the Texas situation, as well she should, but she did so as if the religious animosity exhibited by the hostage taker was some kind of new, unique event. She did so as if Jews, and others who adopt different forms of belief should now change their sense of security; that now we are more threatened than before. She even alleged that this was the first time a synagogue in the United States had been so invaded. The error in this last observation is self-evident. Did the Rabbi forget the tragedy of the Tree of Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh?
But even that is hardly the point. The history of religious sectarianism is replete with animosity and violence. It is cliched to say this, but it needs to be said here – religious affiliation has been one of, if not the, greatest source of war and prejudice than any other single idea. For a leader of one of those sectarian bands to be preaching human community is like Mitch McConnel preaching bipartisanship.
Maybe that’s overstating it. Unlike Mitch, these various groups often do reach out to one another. That’s good as far as it goes. It just doesn’t go far enough. As long as we feel the necessity to reach out to separate factions, the problems will continue. Why? Because as long as there are separate factions there can be nothing else.
How can we expect to be communal when we constantly define ourselves separately, when we stamp ourselves religiously as us rather than them? And as long as we do that, there will always be lunatics who take it to heart and invade synagogues, or churches, or mosques, or wherever a sect decides is the proper building for them to gather.
Oh, there is so much more to say (volumes have been written) about the distinctions between religions; about whether those distinctions exist at all; about whether any of us are capable of comprehending the ultimate mystery of what life is all about. There is so much more to say about how so many of us ascribe a particular sect as part of us without even understanding what that sect even believes. During the rabbinical service that I talk about here, there were people mouthing the Hebrew words of the prayers. I don’t know this for sure, but my guess is that at least some of them were simply making sounds, the meanings of which they did not know. As someone once said, “Going to Church doesn’t make you a Christian any more than standing in the garage makes you a car.”
We need to see each of us as just another member of the human family. Of course, that’s not easy. We have been tribal from the very beginning. But we are no longer at the very beginning. Why cling to those beginnings? Have we progressed at all? How long will it take for us before we realize that ancient tribal groupings, no matter how important they may once have been, are counter-productive now? It won’t be tomorrow, that’s for sure. But we can’t assume that it will never happen. We have the power to at least start to make it so.
The Rabbi’s sermon was beautiful. Unfortunately, it was delivered by the wrong person.
I try to be respectful of religion but I am by no means “religious”. I think that I’m generally a very good person, care about others, try to walk the straight and narrow, have absolutely strayed from that path more than once and basically have resolved that, if there is a God who will stand judgement over me, He knows what’s in my heart and I’m prepared to be judged as is, warts and all.
All of that is to say, I’m just not cut out to be religious, having seen all of the dark underbelly of that beast. The wars, the pedophiles, the hypocrisy, the audacious extravagance in the face of poverty … it just doesn’t justify the good will and inspiration. So I couldn’t agree more with your analysis.
On a similar note, I think I am a relatively positive person and always hope for the best for myself and others. But these past few years of reading Facebook posts and the comments section of various news articles makes it damned hard, if not impossible, to be positive about the future of the world. It is absolutely mind-boggling how much ignorance, spite and hatefulness abounds … and that’s just in our country, let alone around the world! Of course, it’s most recognizable across our political spectrum but these past few years of Drumpf-dom has allowed that political cesspool to seep into all areas of our lives. Common decency is SO not common, and forget about common sense. Who could foresee a mother threatening to bring all of her guns to a school if her child has to wear a mask??? With all of the advances of modern medicine, who could foresee virtually half the world saying “shove that vaccine where the sun don’t shine!” People have simply lost their minds. It’s a good time to be 70 and on my out.
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Cyril Patrick, I couldn’t agree more! Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined what has been happening. I’m in my early 70s (but hope to stick around for a couple more decades, good health willing). My concern about the future is that I have 2 kids and 3 grandkids that will have to live in this crazy world.
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Its never a good time for a thoughtful person like you to be on your way out.
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I’ve had two heart attacks and two additional angioplastys, the first incident occurring when I was 46 and thought I was in great shape. At the time of the first, I thought I would be very lucky to survive to age 60, yet here I still am! So, hopefully, I’ll still be around for a little while. But, on my most optimistic day, I can’t conceive of your “couple more decades” for me. Not going to sweat it, will be nice if it happens, no biggie if it doesn’t; just hoping I leave this earth before I lose my mind or decent health (although there’s growing sentiment in my household that the mind, for all practical purposes, is gone already). Stay tuned. 🙂
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U r my favorite idealist except for Ernie Banks
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